Coffee with Carey

As a dating coach for men and women, and a relationship expert, my mission is to have you leave here every week, better for having met me. I hope you will subscribe for for dating tips, relationship advice, first date tips, continued updates on dating scams, the dating apps, online dating platforms, and many other relevant topics of dating in 2024.

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Carey








Coffee with Carey

What’s your favorite "just because" gift?

1 day ago | [YT] | 14

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Of course, it would be influenced by your age and where you live, but in general, this is the breakdown on what percentage of women are using some of the top dating apps…

    SeniorMatch 46%
•    Bumble: 39%
   •   Hinge: 35%
   •   eHarmony: 52%
   •   Match.com: 51%
   •   OkCupid: 26%
Tinder 24%
    •   EliteSingles: 57%
   •   Christian Mingle: 56%
   •   Coffee Meets Bagel: 60%

2 days ago | [YT] | 13

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You’re on a first date and your date mentions their favorite band. You immediately leave. What band is it?
🤔🤭😝

2 days ago | [YT] | 12

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What’s the worst thing someone can say to you during a first date?

3 days ago | [YT] | 26

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How do you feel about a phone call or video chat before the first date?

4 days ago | [YT] | 15

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What’s your biggest non-verbal cue that you’re into someone on a date?"

Ps. Gentlemen, let’s get real for a second: complaining that women should just say they’re interested instead of using nonverbal cues is like asking to skip the game and go straight to the trophy. Flirting—the glances, the smiles, the little hints—has been around for centuries because it works. It’s how humans connect, build chemistry, and figure out if there’s mutual interest.

Expecting women to abandon this timeless dance just because you don’t want to put in the effort to learn how it works? That’s not progress—that’s laziness.

Instead of demanding a rewrite of human interaction, why not step up and learn the art of flirting? Trust me, mastering it will make the entire experience a lot more rewarding—and a lot more fun!

5 days ago | [YT] | 20

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What's the one thing you never forget before heading out on a date?

6 days ago | [YT] | 24

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Let me run something past you…

At the risk of being banned from yet another dating app (I was banned years ago due to scouting matches for clients rather than for myself- and then for logging into other people accounts (with clients’ permission) using my own IP address) I was thinking that it would be an interesting experiment to create the profile of an average looking man.

I could use my own skills that I teach here and to clients; tips and tricks that are often undervalued or ridiculed by men in the comments. All I would be looking to do is to have a conversation, illustrating that it is not looks or money that are attracting women, but personality, kindness, and confidence.

However, I don’t want to hurt any women in any way. A couple messages back-and-forth I don’t think is a huge imposition for women who are putting themselves out there to meet people. I would need to stop short, obviously, of making plans.

🤔 Yeah, I’m not sure how I would do this. Does anybody see a way this would work, without doing harm?

1 week ago | [YT] | 17

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Where is the best place to meet potential partners, according to you?

1 week ago | [YT] | 22

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What’s the hardest part about dating someone new?

1 week ago | [YT] | 28