Kris Reece

What are you struggling with the most?

58 minutes ago | [YT] | 47

Kris Reece

Toxic relationships come from a toxic soul. 💔 You don’t have to be a narcissist to be toxic. Toxicity can come from insecurity, unhealed wounds, and emotional immaturity. But some of the greatest sources of toxicity come from bitterness and unforgiveness.

These are the offenses we feel justified in holding onto—the grudges we clutch as if they’re protecting us. I’ve been there, and I know the damage it causes. It creates sickness—both internally and externally.

Bitterness is like a cancer that slowly eats away at everything good around you. It poisons relationships, clouds your judgment, and leaves you trapped in a cycle of hurt. It causes healthy people to become sick and deepens the wounds of those already hurting.

When bitterness takes root, it forms what the Bible calls a bitter root (Hebrews 12:15). And if left unchecked, it becomes a stronghold—a spiritual fortress where the enemy gains influence in your life. Bitterness doesn’t just blind your mind; it binds your heart.

You can’t receive wisdom or peace when bitterness takes over. ✨ You can’t walk in revelation or purpose if you’re walking in bitterness. It creates a wall between you and God’s voice.

We often believe it’s the toxic people in our lives who have caused all the pain and who are preventing us from stepping into our purpose. But the truth is, even after those people are long gone, their offenses can still hold power over us if bitterness remains.

That’s why “no contact” doesn’t always lead to freedom. If the pain is still festering inside, bitterness keeps you in bondage—a prison of your own making. 🪪 While they’ve moved on, your bitterness keeps you stuck, robbing you of joy, peace, and healing.

My prayer for you today is that you release that unforgiveness to the Lord. 🙏 Lay down what that person did to you, trusting God to heal, restore, and redeem what the enemy tried to steal.

May we not tie God’s hands with our bitterness. Instead, let’s walk in the freedom, peace, and abundant life that only comes through forgiveness.

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4 days ago | [YT] | 1,393

Kris Reece

Rumors are started by haters, spread by fools, and believed by the gullible. 💬
There’s a sinister sin lurking within the Body of Christ, one that’s often dismissed or overlooked. Yet, its impact is devastating, leaving a trail of destruction that’s impossible to fully measure.
No, it's not murder. It’s not even adultery—it’s gossip.
Gossip cuts deeply and wounds in ways we don’t always see.It’s devastating because the person being spoken about has no chance to defend themselves. Even worse, they often believe the relationship is stronger than it is, making the betrayal even more painful. 💔
I’ll admit—I’ve stood on all sides of this sin.
- I’ve let bitterness take root in my heart, using someone’s flaws as fuel for venting my own hurt. Not because I wanted to harm them, but because I wanted to ease the pain they caused me.
- I’ve been foolish enough to blindly trust another person’s harsh words, unknowingly joining the cycle of judgment and hurt.
- And I’ve been the one caught off guard, gullible enough to trust someone who was tearing me down behind my back.
Gossip isn’t just idle talk—it’s a destructive force that masquerades as concern, prayer requests, or “venting.” But its real power is in breaking trust, dividing hearts, and sowing seeds of discord. 😔
And the enemy thrives in this chaos, preying on old wounds, past triggers, and deeply rooted insecurities. 🔥
My goal this year is to cut off his supply—at the very least, not be a pawn in his plan.
So, perhaps you'll consider joining me in making 2025 the year you choose grace over gossip, unity over division, and building up instead of tearing down. 💖

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1 week ago | [YT] | 3,274

Kris Reece

💔 Yes, you are worth fighting for.
You deserve someone who sees you as irreplaceable—who looks at you and knows you’re a priceless treasure. 🪞 A rare gem so valuable, they’d move mountains to honor and protect the bond they share with you. 💎
Someone who cherishes you so deeply that the thought of losing you drives them to love, fight for, and nurture what they have with you.

But let’s be real—sometimes, people fail us: 😢

Friends walk away...
Spouses break covenants...
Parents fall short...

For whatever reason, imperfect people can’t or won’t be who they should be to you. 
And it hurts. 
But there is One who never fails. ❤️

His love is perfect.
It's Unconditional...Unchanging and Unbreakable

You see, Jesus didn’t just think you were worth fighting for—He knew you were worth dying for. ✝️

May that pierce your hurting heart today, my friend. ❤️‍🩹


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1 month ago | [YT] | 2,743

Kris Reece

Have you ever felt like someone in your life is trying to manipulate you—but when you catch on to them, their behavior becomes even more toxic?

Suddenly, the lies, the control, and the chaos go into overdrive. 🏎️

Here’s the hard truth: When a narcissist can’t manipulate you, they don’t just walk away....and they certainly don't self examine...

Instead, they double down with some of the most destructive tactics imaginable.

But what are these tactics?

And more importantly—how can you protect yourself?

That's why I'm hoping you'll join me LIVE at 5:00 pm EST today on YouTube as we dive deep into the 5 toxic tactics narcissists use when they can't manipulate you anymore.​

You don't want to miss this.

And as always, we'll dive into a lively Q&A.

So, set your reminder here and I'll see you soon!
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1 month ago | [YT] | 812

Kris Reece

Which area do you need the most support with right now? 💕

1 month ago | [YT] | 737

Kris Reece

It’s not you.
❌ They don’t hate YOU.
❌ They’re not ignoring YOU.
The lies, the smear campaigns, the gaslighting—they’re real.But they’re not about you.

I’m not here to minimize your pain or dismiss what you’re going through.
It’s real, and it hurts. ❤️‍🩹
The love you once shared feels like it’s vanished, replaced by someone who seems like they can’t even stand to look at you.

But hear me: It’s not you.

I’m not saying you were perfect. None of us are.

But if you’re walking closely with Christ, the battle you’re facing isn’t about you.

📖 Scripture reminds us: We don’t wrestle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of evil.

The lies, the dismissiveness, the defensiveness, the anger—it’s not random. 🤷🏼‍♀️

It’s because the Holy Spirit is convicting them of truths they’re desperate to avoid and sins they’re clinging to.

❓Need proof?
👉 Are they avoiding godly people?
👉 Are they drowning in escapist behaviors—distractions, addictions, shallow relationships?
👉 Do they plaster on a happy face for the world while hiding their shame and pain underneath?

⚠️ That’s because it’s all catching up to them.
The avoidance. The coping mechanisms. The phony smiles that crumble behind closed doors...

Here’s the hard truth: No matter how much you try to convince them, change them, or reach them—that’s not your job.That’s the job of the Holy Spirit. 🙏 

This isn’t about puffing you up or putting you on some spiritual pedestal.

It’s about helping you see the spiritual battle at play—one that can only be won in your prayer closet.

So, let them slander.
Let them lie.
Let them avoid, deflect, and defend...

You, my friend, need to get on your knees and submit to the only One who can fight this battle

Because they can’t see the demonic forces at work in their life, but you can. 🔥

And they can fight you all they want...But they can’t fight the Holy Spirit.
💪 So, keep praying. He’ll get ‘em.

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1 month ago | [YT] | 5,473

Kris Reece

Doubt isn’t a death sentence. ✨
Right now, I’m in a season of intense crushing. 💔 I’ve walked through valleys with God before, but not like this one.
And not long ago, in the stillness of my spirit, I heard a promise from God—a promise so stunning that it stopped me in my tracks. 🌄
Maybe you’ve had a moment like that, where you wonder, Where did that even come from? I wasn’t praying for it, I wasn’t even thinking along those lines, and let’s be real—Satan isn’t in the business of making beautiful promises. That left only one explanation: this impossible, breathtaking promise came from God. ✝️
But I didn’t immediately rejoice. If anything, I wrestled with it. Oh, I wrestled. I asked for confirmation more times than I’d like to admit—think Jacob-level wrestling but with a side of questioning everything. 😅
Eventually, it became abundantly clear that this word was from the Lord. It wasn’t my imagination. It wasn’t wishful thinking. It was Him. 🙌
So why wasn’t I overjoyed?
The truth? I didn’t believe Him.
Not fully. I found myself staring at the waves instead of the promise—the hurt, the pain, the dysfunction. The impossible mountain in front of me. 🏔️
My heart whispered, God, I know You CAN, but I don’t know that I believe You WILL.
It sounded spiritual in my head, but deep down, I knew it wasn’t faith—it was doubt.
And that doubt started to spiral. I beat myself up for not having enough faith to trust Him for what seemed impossible—even though I’ve seen Him do the same impossible for others. 😔
It reminded me of Thomas, who we so unfairly call “Doubting Thomas.” He knew Jesus COULD rise from the dead, but he refused to believe it until he saw proof.
We judge him so harshly, don’t we? As if we’d be any different in his shoes. 😏
And I wish I could tell you that reading Thomas’ story snapped me out of my doubt. It didn’t. But it did remind me of something hopeful: doubt isn’t a death sentence. 🌟
My doubt isn’t going to stop God’s promise from coming to pass. 🙏 Thomas’ doubt didn’t stop Jesus from appearing to him. Zechariah’s scoffing didn’t stop John the Baptist from being born. Sarah’s laughter didn’t cancel the promise of Isaac.
God is good because He is God. ❤️ His faithfulness doesn’t depend on my faith.
So if you’re in a season like mine—holding your situation in one hand and His promise in the other, wondering, How could this possibly happen?—I want to invite you to join me in a simple but powerful prayer from Mark 9:24:
"Lord, I believe; help my unbelief." 🙌
Because here’s the truth: God doesn’t need perfect faith to move mountains. 🪨 He just needs you to trust Him enough to bring your doubt to Him. And He will meet you there. Every time. 💕

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1 month ago | [YT] | 1,172

Kris Reece

Difficult relationships carry a unique sorrow 💔, one that only those who’ve felt the weight of their pain can truly understand. 
The frustration and anger you feel toward this person is often only surpassed by the love you still have—or the love you desperately wish was there.
It’s hard to reconcile such conflicting emotions. Our human minds long for simplicity, preferring to place people into neat categories: good or bad, love or hate, victim or villain...
But relationships are rarely that simple.
Sure, you could do what many do—drown your emotions in another drink 🍷, bury yourself in work 💻, or leap into another relationship 💔. 
But the truth is, relationships are messy. They’re also one of God’s favorite tools to refine us 🔥.
So, when you’re burning with frustration—or even unforgiveness—and you just want to label this person as “bad” to ease the ache of your feelings, pause and remember this: 
God doesn’t use relationships to make us happy; He uses them to make us holy.
If you’re walking through a painful season—whether your relationship is hanging by a thread, the love of your life has walked away, or you’ve been estranged from someone you love for so long you’ve given up hope—know this: 
You are not alone.
God sees you. He doesn’t want you pretending it doesn’t hurt, nor does He want you numbing the pain with temporary distractions. 
He wants you to bring it all to Him—your tears, frustration, and confusion...all of it.
Because when you bring it all to Him, He is faithful to heal it all. ✝️

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1 month ago (edited) | [YT] | 2,692

Kris Reece

The enemy’s #1 goal is destruction, and one of his favorite targets is families. Why?
Because families are a reflection of God’s love, unity, and design. 💔 
By tearing apart what God has joined together, the enemy can undermine God’s plan and purpose, not only for the individual, but for the entire family.
He thrives on sowing division, hardening hearts and the illusion of greener pastures. 🌱 And just when you think you're finding stability, he strikes again, amplifying wounds and deepening the divide.

Whether you're facing a painful divorce, the heartbreak of a broken relationship, family division, or even estrangement, know this: God is in the restoration business. 🙏 
It's not His heart to see families torn apart, and I believe no relationship is beyond His redemptive reach.

That said, relationships require two willing hearts. If the other person refuses to repent or reconcile, there’s little space for restoration. But here’s the good news—this isn’t the end of the story. 🌟

Even if God doesn’t restore the relationship, He will restore YOU. 
He promises to redeem the years the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). 
Will you trust Him with what feels broken beyond repair? 💔
More importantly, will you follow Him through the pain to the promise?

He leaves nothing old, nothing missing, nothing broken. 🕊️ If you will place your trust in Him, He will restore you in ways you never imagined possible. ❤️‍🩹

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