0:34
Behavior is Contagious -- Don’t “Mirror” Immaturity [age-regression]
Mark Hutten, M.A.
0:45
Don’t Try to Analyze Your Neurodiverse Marital Fights - It'll Drive You Crazy!
0:10
Tip for ND Couples: The thing you do that NEVER - EVER - works…
0:20
Your Spouse Has To Be Doing Something Right - What Is It?!
0:23
You're Wasting 80% of Your Time and Energy Trying to Control the Uncontrollable: Tip for ND Couples
0:24
Don't Follow Your Spouse Down the Emotional Rabbit Hole: Tip for Neurodiverse Couples
1:29
You can NEVER have one foot in "flight-or-fight" - and the other foot in "rest-and-digest".
2:05
Get Your Nest in Order NOW Before that Last Child Moves Out: Tip for Neurodiverse Couples
1:13
Who is having the most health problems in your neurodiverse marriage? You or your spouse?
1:32
Fighting multiple battles at once in a neurodiverse marriage is INSANE...
0:42
I didn't say "Just ACCEPT his behavior"... I said "Accept that you can't CONTROL his behavior."
0:43
ASD Spouses and Their Lack-of-Trust in "Significant Others"
0:17
The false assumption that your spouse has "malicious intent" is where your HURT comes from...
0:56
Obsessive Thinking in Autism Spectrum Disorder
0:38
"Chore Refusal" in Your ASD Husband: Message to NT Spouses
0:32
ASD and the Tendency to "Negatively Spin" the Motives of Others
0:14
Question for Neurotypical Women: Have you tended to pick "emotionally unavailable" men?
1:18
Remedy for Negative Thinking: Use your Replacement Thoughts
0:26
The #1 Thing the ASD Spouse Wants -- and The #1 Thing the NT Spouse Wants
0:47
One ASD spouse said, "I show my love by fixing your dishwasher."
1:33
Message to NTs: If Your "Hope" Lies in CHANGING Your ASD Spouse - You'll Be Sorely Disappointed
Popular Statement from NT wives: “My husband with ASD says he doesn’t have anxiety.”
0:37
WARNING to NT Spouses: Insisting that your ASD husband become more social & emotional will backfire.
0:12
The #1 Cause of Misery in Your Neurodiverse Marriage
1:24
Message to Burned-out Neurotypical Wives: Think "Energy Conservation"
0:16
“Fight” for those things that are important to you? Hmmm?!
1:30
Autism and Hurricanes Are No Respecters of Persons [both provide EVERYONE an opportunity to learn]
Numerous “Replays” of a Hurtful Event Are Much Worse than the Original Event
The Neurotypical Wife's Message to Her ASD Spouse is Often Too Vague
0:30
Wake-up Call for NT Wives: You've Put Him in Charge of Your Feelings?! Ouch!!!
2:02
"Illogical" News to People with ASD: Feelings are Facts!
1:45
Message to ASD Husbands: How to set boundaries when all your NT wife wants to do is "vent"...
1:00
Logical Intelligence (LQ) Is Your Greatest Strength: Message to People on the Autism Spectrum
0:31
Message to NT Wives: Difficult Conversations Better Be Short, Calm and to the Point!
1:08
Self-healing Must Come Before Marital-healing: Message to Neurodiverse Couples
0:27
Message to the Spouse in the Neurodiverse Marriage Who is the Sickest
1:37
Message to (burned-out) Neurotypical Spouses: You Need Some Forms of Escapism Too
0:21
Message to NTs: You take autistic traits as a personal affront - BIG MISTAKE!
The Emotional Brain Did Not Fully Develop in Your ASD Spouse
Brutal Truth Denial Syndrome (BTDS) in the Neurodiverse Marriage
0:33
Your NT Wife’s #1 Need: Message to ASD Husbands
1:44
Message to Aspergians: "Fake it until you make it?" Bulls**t !
1:46
THE Summary of Why Things Went to Hell in Your Neurodiverse Marriage
0:08
You will continue this destructive behavior - even after watching this video [guaranteed]!
Message to NT Partners: What if you sucked at playing poker?
1:42
Message to NT Spouses: "Wait a minute... you liked some of those traits in the beginning!"
Your Negative Attitude Transmits Negative Vibrations That WILL Hinder Conflict Resolution
1:16
Message to Spouses in a ND Relationship: "Stop sipping on the cup of bitterness."
0:54
Message to NTs: You've grossly misread what's really going on with your ASD spouse.
Toxic Shame in the ASD Spouse: What Neurotypicals Need to Know
Your NT Spouse WILL GET Your Negative Attention If She Can't Get Positive Attention
1:41
Emotional Reasoning: One Popular Cognitive Distortion
0:55
The Dumbest Thing You’ll Ever Do In Your Neurodiverse Marriage
The 2 Main Reasons You Get "Push-Back" from Your ASD Spouse
1:40
Disappointing News for ASD Husbands: The "work" in the ND marriage NEVER ends.....
0:41
"Trying Harder" at Things that Aren't Working Makes Them WORSE!
The #1 Best Way to Extend Grace to Your Partner: A Script for Neurodiverse Couples
Quick Message to ASD Spouses: DO THIS NOW --- RIGHT NOW!!
0:28
What have you discovered as a result of being in this neurodiverse marriage? #asd
The 2 Types of Neurotypical Spouses: (1) Rewarding Outcome ONLY, (2) Rewarding Effort and Outcome
1:22
Hyper-focusing on "Special Interests" Reduces Unpredictability in Your ASD Spouse
0:36
WARNING: Shame-throws and Guilt-trips Increase Unwanted Behavior (and this is a 2-way street)
1:10
How You Cause Your #1 Source of Frustration: Message to NT Spouses
You Will “Get” EXACTLY What You “Give” (and this is a 2-way street)
Preserving the Past: Do you really want to hold on to "what was"?
0:35
Appeal to Your ASD Spouse's Logic: Message to Neurotypicals
1:48
Message to Depressed NT Wives: You Had Hope Back in the Day
You don’t “leave your problems behind” when you “leave the relationship”…
When Your NT Wife Keeps Bringing Up the Past: Message to ASD Husbands
0:53
You Can’t Have It Both Ways: Message to Neurodiverse Couples
1:06
Autism Is Not "Targeting" Anybody - It's Not Out To Get You
Autism Is Not a Respecter of Persons - It Treats All Sufferers in the Same Way
1:50
Your ASD Husband May Not Speak Any of "The 5 Love Languages"
Don't Freely Give Your Power Away: Message to Neurotypical Wives
2:04
THE #1 Dilemma in the Neurodiverse Relationship
1:39
More "Problem-Focus" Results in More "Problem-Creation"
1:01
Changing Your ASD Spouse is Not a Self-Care Strategy
Dear NT Wives: "Please stop beating your head against a brick wall."
Less Work - Better Results: Message to NT Spouses
"My feelings are your fault!"
Who is the biggest loser in the neurodiverse marriage?
